Those on adult Tinder will have a relatively easy time finding matches but finding a match isn’t all there is to it. You need to find a match that doesn’t ghost you. Someone who will stay to talk. In order to find Tinder singles to actually talk to you will need to prepare for Tinder for adults. Today we are going to take a look at some of the things that you can do to prepare for finding Tinder adults.
Know What You Are Looking For
Almost everyone who gets on Tinder is looking for something different. Tinder for adults is a big world filled with many different users. It will be hard for you to swipe yes on someone you are likely to match or enjoy being with if you don’t know who you are looking for.
Take a good moment to write a small list of what you are looking for. We aren’t talking make or break traits in a guy, but rather, are you looking for a serious relationship? Do you want something short term? Long term? Are you looking for an open relationship or a closed one? Knowing this kind of thing will help you to find the best match possible.
Get High Quality Photos For Your Profile
We like to pretend that we are better than judging a person based on their photos but Tinder for adults is all about Tinder single’s photos. The first, and sometimes only thing, we see upon stumbling across someone’s Tinder profile is their photos. Even if the person has a bio, it is extremely short. That means, in order to make matches, we need high quality photos to catch the eyes of other users.
What constitutes a high-quality photo on adult Tinder? First, the photo needs to be of you, preferably of a good portion of your body. While it is okay to have a selfie as a second or third photo, you don’t want it to be your main photo and there shouldn’t be more than one selfie on the profile.
Science also shows that pictures of us smiling do better when it comes to making connections with others. This includes connections over dating apps like Tinder for adults. Try to get photos of you smiling, preferably genuine smiles. It may help if you take photos during activities that you enjoy doing.
On that note, we highly recommend that you have a friend take photos for you while you are out doing activities, even if it is as simple as a walk in the park or snacking at a café. Active photos show that you are a person that likes to get out and do stuff. People want to see someone who is likely to take them out on good dates when they look at your photos.
Write A Short but Good Profile
Tinder adults don’t have much room to write a profile. Some people don’t write a profile but in our experience, it is better to have something small in your profile than to look like you put no effort into trying to find a match.
For writing your profile it doesn’t hurt to put a few tidbits about yourself such as what you like to do, what kind of music you like, and/or your favorite food. After the tidbits though you want to describe yourself or give some joke or story that makes people curious about hearing more from you. You need to hook readers/visitors of your profile to get them interested. Think of your profile as marketing yourself.
Because of the short nature of Tinder, make sure that you don’t make your profile too long or people won’t want to read it.
Come Up With First Messages
The best first message is one that comes from something in one of the user’s profile pictures or something in their written profile. That being said, there will be times when you don’t have anything to say from the profile. To be ready for these occasions, come up with some great first messages.
A traditional pickup line may work, but just like with your profile, the idea is to make the other person curious about your message. Make them want to message you back because their curiosity is driving them to.
What you want to avoid for first messages is anything to do with sex. Sex talk is a quick and easy way to get people to end a conversation. You need to gauge each conversation and determine when tinder singles are ready to move on.